Bella..
I don't think there's anything wrong with talking, and I feel attacked for it. I just felt she could get like all the attention from Ellen or like I was the sore thumb. I did encourage her to come and talk. You know before Tim Burton none of this would have happened, I wouldn't be susceptible to insult quite so. I did think Bella came in either at random or in ill will, and they way she communicates does annoy me, though all I can say is yes please join.
To clarify, why does Ellen seem to follow an old bestie of mine thinking in a tacky way, "Don't say anything?" She doesn't give orders and that's barbarous! I have a freedom of speech. I know she tried to "tell us" not to gossip. What else is there to talk about?